Sabbatical Leave it was.....
Been Long you heard from me. Now let's set the record straight. Happy New Year and God bless you as you read. First of all, I would need your audience to bring to your knowledge something I noticed in women and I quote “Women are Interested, Even when they seem not, sometimes they need more effort from us Guys".
I want to talk about ATTENTION and I won't mince words but go straight to the point like Eniola will say. Permit me guys to say this; some of us are not Smart, Intelligent and Sensitive. Do you realize that even if a Lady is hard to get and doesn't want to bulge, yet she's communicating with you! Then that's the opening you need. Some guys would be like "she's hard to get”,"she's iron lady", "she's too harsh", etc. Do you know that if she didn't like you at all, you won't get her attention? So what else do you need? Permit me to ask 'Are you a learner'? Sometimes I know guys will say she has a Boyfriend...Hahahaha I am laughing in spanish. Which girl doesn't have a boyfriend? 99.9% of girls have boyfriends including the ones that don't have and lay claims that they have. Am not going to lecture you on that, Even if a girl has a Boyfriend and they have been dating for 10 years, yet the Boyfriend doesn't give her attention and you can give her? Cheer up dude you just got lucky. If you were wise and you have a girl in mind that has a Boyfriend? You will go for her. Do you know why? It will bring out the best in you! Don't be disappointed at the end of the day if you don't get her .You have already Registered your presence in her life or perhaps you didn't put that extra effort.
Women want better things like wise Men. They want to upgrade their Shoes,Bags,Clothes,Make ups,Cars etc. They also want their Man to upgrade themselves. But we don't upgrade at all. Am talking about our Attitude& Mentality towards women. When we get the girl we relax like one who just conquered an Empire. Alas, that’s when the work starts, you have to work harder to keep her, Hence a Bad Sharp Guy comes around her and its End of Discussion for you. The women also have a role to play because Economic conditions have a psychological effect on the men. It might make them loose touch
Unknowingly. Communicate your feelings to them and choose a good and nice atmosphere to do that. watch his mood, I didn't say you should shout and disrespect him. The bottom line is that we need to keep learning. Let's UN-learn to learn some more.
Truth is Social Media has its disadvantages one of which is lack of SMS and CALLS. Oops I spilled it ...guys sorry but that's the truth...Am also Guilty on this matter and am Learning to change. We only ping nowadays. Am not saying you shouldn't ping but go the extra mile for her, Call & send Sms. Pay ATTENTION to her, her body language, her Expression, her Voice Tone, Her emotions...the list is Endless I know Guys..No be Small thing. Be patient and Endure..... To be Contd
N.B kindly drop your comments and Suggestions or Topics. It shall be addressed.
12 comments:
Your head dey dere!!! Its nice dis is comin from a guy! WORD!
Very niceee,true talk.
Am happy this was able to spill out some stuffs dat ladies can't just tolerate...nyc 1
I Personally dunno like guys dat want to know wats wrong with me at every point in time wen at d end cannot proffer solutions...It annoys me
Yems,girls of nowadays are such complex beings. They should have come to this world clenching how-to-use manuals! A whole lot of them are living in a La-la land of self-importance and tend to feed fat off of the attention that you show them. It is from those lot that you have to be wary. Truth is there is a constant battle of the sexes going on regarding this "showing attention" thing. My two-cents on the issue is this : For a girl you are chasing, don't go overboard to show too much attention especially when the wooing has become protracted. Matter of fact, the less attention you show, the more attractive you become to her ! Like I said, it's a battle of the sexes. You should lace the attention with some indifferent aloofness. Hot and cold is the way to go. If it's your GIRLFRIEND, then step up the attention-showing several notches higher. However, you might want mix that with some alpha-male tendencies also. Some bit of CONTROL. I told you girls are a complicated lot. The high level of attention that you show your girlfriend dosent mean she won't get up to no-good. You don't have a total hold on her and your attention-showing will come to nought to her when push comes to shove. Lastly,if we are talking about YOUR WIFE, then you can give that one ALL the LOVE and ATTENTION in the world. You are more or less showing yourself love if you show your wife love. Remember what the good book says about both of you being one flesh ? One would be hard done by to say the same about a girl you are wooing or a mere girlfriend. So,Yemz, the idea is to apportion different levels of attention-showing to different women. No be one-size-fit-all ! My two-cents
Nice one Omo'ba!
Incisive! Looking foward to the concluding part.
When it comes to this boy-girl, man-woman thing, Sigh* no Pro o!, no graduate, we are all learners. But the beauty comes when we don't give up learning.
@Collings, BRAVE.
That's the most potent female spell...ATTENTION!
That's the most potent female spell...ATTENTION!
Galz r complicated,guyz r complicated,human beings r complicated,love is complicated in short Life is complicted.
Everytin is not jus black or white,dia r some grey spots.
The guy who wrote this Article is not a learner.
Nice concept but u can do more on d construction n arrangement of words-sentences. Looking forward to another topic, well edited. Thumbs up- SmoothiePoshCandy
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