7 irresistible guys

I need to pick at least four to inculcate
1. The Romantic Guy
He believes in classic romance. He is constantly bringing her
flowers and chocolate and lighting candles during dinner. He
calls her often to let her know he is thinking about her and
looks into her eyes and tells her how he feels.
Why he is so irresistible: A woman loves to feel appreciated,
and the romantic guy makes this happen. He uses romantic
gestures to show her he is thinking about her. As an added
bonus, she feels free to reciprocate and act on her own
romantic tendencies.

2. The Confident Guy
He is totally secure and sure of himself. He is assertive in
public and gives off an aura of power and control (within
reason of course, as the "cocky guy" is not on this list). In a
relationship, he doesn't get jealous of other men; he doesn't
feel threatened by his girlfriend's male friends or co-workers.
Why he is so irresistible: Women are attracted to
confident men. Consider this: If you think you are great, she
will probably be influenced to think the same. The confident
man doesn't seek approval from women, and this makes them
want him even more.

3. The Artistic Guy
The artistic guy is spontaneous and lives for the moment.
Often, he will use his creativity to woo her, such as with a song
he has written about her or a painting he has made for her.
Why he is so irresistible: Every woman wants to feel unique
and special. There is no better way to make her feel this way
than to use her as your muse or your source of inspiration.
She is intrigued by the artistic guy's creative mind and
especially by the way he incorporates her into his art.
Charismatic, rebellious, smart, and considerate men all get the girl

The Foreign Guy
He comes from a faraway exotic country; he might have a
cute accent or a unique way of seeing the world. His social
customs and everyday behaviour can be a little quirky, but he
always manages to come off as uniquely charming. Note that
you don't have to actually be foreign to fit into this category. If
you are well-travelled or speak many languages, you might
be able to pull off the charm as well as any sweet-talking
foreigner.
Why he is so irresistible: Charisma, charisma and charisma.
There's not much more I can say about this one; it's just that
mysterious je ne sais quoi that is so alluring. Women often
choose this kind of guy if they are curious about the world,
but most of the appeal comes down to a fascination with
dating someone from another culture
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5. The Free Spirit Guy (aka
the Bad Boy)
The free spirit guy goes where the wind takes him — and the
wind usually takes him on some kind of wacky adventure. He
might ride a motorcycle, or he might skip work to take her on
a last-minute road trip, but this guy doesn't worry too much
about the consequences; he just sees where his own devices
take him.
Why he is so irresistible: Every woman wants a bit of a rebel
(within reason, of course). She loves his carefree attitude and
hopes that it will rub off on her too. The bad boy spirit adds an
element of youthfulness to the relationship and she loves to
try taming him — although she knows she'll never actually
succeed.

6. The Intelligent/Witty Guy
He instigates conversations that are intellectually stimulating
and listens to what she has to say in response. He makes her
laugh with his clever sense of humour and could make a
conversation about Gordon Brown seem interesting. He can
shoot the breeze with her for hours and it will never get
boring.
Why he is so irresistible: As time goes on, your hairline may
recede and your buff body may soften, but if you can keep
her interested, you've won half the battle. An intellectual
connection is a big part of what sustains a relationship and if
you can show her that you've got that, she'll be hooked pretty
quickly.

7. The Considerate Guy
He holds open her car door and pulls out her chair. He foots
the bill for dinner and makes sure to offer her dessert. He
always asks her out with reasonable notice and picks her up at
her door. He is generally sensitive to how she is feeling and
when she is ready to go home.
Why he is so irresistible: Surprised? You probably think that
nice, considerate guys never get the woman, but consider this:
Once a woman has gone through her share of the bad guy, the
rude guy and the not-calling-her-back guy, she will likely re-
evaluate her priorities. It takes a bit of maturity on her part to
realise this, but eventually most girls come around and realise
that they want a guy who will treat them well in the long
run.
a word of caution
Don't take any of these character types to the extreme or try
to be someone you're not — it will be obvious.
The key to success here is to keep in mind why women like the
character traits outlined above and what kind of gestures they
appreciate. Then, mix them up and see which of these traits
and gestures you are most comfortable with. With just a little
bit of effort, you'll be able to find more than a few irresistible
qualities within yourself — and accordingly, she'll be easily
wooed by your newfound individuality.
Now isn't that worth your time?
*Naira land*

Jason Derulo opens up on break up with Jordin Sparks

On his Instagram page . The singer talked about the reasons he and jordin broke up. But not due to infidelity as people speculated.

Jordin Sparks & Jason Derulo have ended their relationship

Jordin Sparks and Jason Derulo have ended their relationship, a source tells PEOPLE.

The couple began dating three years ago.

The duo was all smiles at the MTV Video Music Awards in Los Angeles on Aug. 24, wearing matching white ensembles and being affectionate on the red carpet and in the audience.

"They were loving each other's company as they sat in the front row and danced together, " an eyewitness says.

But recently Derulo, 25, has been spotted without Sparks, first at a boys' night with Ashton Kutcher, Jamie Foxx, Robin Thicke and Diddy for his friend Richie Akiva's birthday at 1OAK. A few days later, he posted a photo on Instagram celebrating his Sept. 21 birthday with Jermaine Dupri and Snoop Dogg.

To add to the speculation, on Sept. 15, Sparks, 24, Tweeted, "I just wrote the saddest song of my life."

21 QUESTIONS A LADY SHOULD ASK ?

I know some guys would have my head for this but i need to help my sisters out. Trying to get a little bit more intimate with that special someone in your life? Well, get cosy and relaxed with your lover and try out these 20 romantic questions to ask your boyfriend, after these questions trust me you would know if he is a keeper or not.

1. How long do you see our relationship lasting?
There's no better way to find out how serious someone is about a relationship than with this question. If he says anything other than 'till the end of time' or 'forever' or something along those lines, you may need to rethink! Whether he wants to admit it or not, every guy knows from day one what he wants from a relationship.

2. How much do you love me?
Get ready to be showered with compliments, hugs, kisses and the likes, simply by asking this romantic question. OR else get ready to receive the cold shoulder.

3. What is your opinion of marriage?
It's every woman's dream to get married, so if your man isn't on board with marriage you may have a problem. On the other hand, if he thinks the man is a provider who should care for his woman till the end, you've struck gold.

4. Do you see us ever getting married?
Is there wedding rings and honeymoons in your future? You'll never know until you ask him this romantic question.

5. What do you love about me the most? Again, this compliment-provoking question is simply one you have to ask. If he doesn't love one special thing about you then he is lying. The easy answer guys give is that they just love everything about you. Big lie dear

6. If I died in a horrible accident, how would you react?
If he is anything other than terribly distraught for months on end, he might not be as serious as you think he is. Its heart warming to know he won't be chasing other ladies the next minute you're gone or dont you think

7. How can I prove my love for you?
Feeling like really proving to your guy you love him more than anything on earth? Then you need to ask this question and find out what he's craving for.

8. Do you feel like you can tell me anything?
Without trust and a bond, a relationship cannot be sustained. If he truly loves you he should be ready and willing to share even his deepest, darkest secrets.

9. Do you still remember our first kiss?

This question is actually more important than you think. Your first kiss was one of the milestones of the relationship and should be one of the most important things to remember. Warning: Hearing your man relive the night you and two shared your first kiss may be a tear jerker

10. Do you remember the day we met? Again, if your man remembers this amazing day, then he is definitely head over heels about you. Plus this question makes for a highly romantic reminiscing session.

11. What about me were you first attracted to? Was it your beautiful green eyes? Your long brown hair? Your hilarious personality? Your bosoms (yeah had to add that ) Find out what has made your man gaga ever since the start.

12. What song reminds you about me?
This can really tell you a lot about what's going on in his mind. Would he choose a crumby, yet totally adorable song like 'Brown Eyed Girl', or is it something a bit raunchy like 'Ms New Booty'? Nigerian girls really like this part..

13. What's is the craziest thing you would do for me?
If you're wondering what exactly your man would be willing to do for your love, you'll find out instantly with this cute question. But don't get all vexed when he says he cant fight a bouncer for you.

14. Would you sacrifice (something) to keep our relationship going?
Would he give up his hateful, jealous friends just to keep you? Would he stop playing video games if it meant saving your relationship? Choose one of his favorite things and see if he'd be willing to give it up for you!

15. Would you be my lover in the next life? If he wouldn't want you in the next life, he probably doesn't really want you in this life. Time to hit the 'end' button.

16. Would you be loyal even if your celebrity crush tried to sleep with you? Who could resist their celebrity crush? Only a man who truly loves you, of course! Can your man say no to the temptations?

17. Will you be with me no matter what? Even if your looks went sour or you were suddenly dirt poor, your man should still be right by your side through it all. Reminds me of man who got married .to his crippled fiancee

18. What memory of ours do you never want to forget?

Finding out your man's fondest memory of the two of you is always a heart melter. Enjoy as he reminisces about his favorite moments and take a second to just enjoy what the two of you have been through together.

19. Am I perfect in your eyes?

The answer should always be yes, no questions asked. If he truly loves you, trust me you would be as white as snow before him.

20. Where would our dream honeymoon be?
It's nice to imagine the two of you eventually saying your vows, exchanging rings, and being together for the rest of your lives. But that's not all. There's also the honeymoon. What romantic place would the love of your life take you? A beautiful beach paradise or by the fireplace in a cabin amongst ice-capped mountain tops? Word of advice, dont ask your boyfriend this question if he is a broke nigga, he could break up with you at that instant

21. Add your own. Too much expo is not good for you.

Source *Naira Land*

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Nigeria retakes Bama, blocks Boko Haram move on Borno state capital

Nigeria says retakes Bama, blocks Boko Haram move on Borno state capital
Mon, Sep 08 09:27 AM EDT
By Felix Onuah

ABUJA (Reuters) - Nigeria's military has recaptured the flashpoint town of Bama in northeast Borno state from Boko Haram and blocked the Islamist militants' advance towards the state capital Maiduguri, a senior official said on Monday.

He said government forces are also fighting a southwards push into neighboring Adamawa state by the group, which has recently departed from its usual hit-and-run tactics and started to seize towns and territory.

The government source, who asked not to be named, said Boko Haram fighters had been driven from Bama, 70 km (45 miles) southeast of Maiduguri. Government warplanes have bombed and strafed the militants after they stormed Bama last week. [ID:nL5N0R63BI]

"Bama has been recaptured by the soldiers and I can confirm to you Maiduguri is safe," the official in Abuja told Reuters.

A market trader from Bama, Babagana Modu, also confirmed that soldiers were in control of the town, as government planes struck at Boko Haram positions in the surrounding area.

Thousands of civilians have fled the recent offensive by the Sunni jihadist movement, which has killed thousands in its five-year-old insurgency in the northeast of Africa's No. 1 oil producer.

It is now believed to be trying to mimic the example of Islamic State (IS), which has announced the creation of its own caliphate covering parts of Syria and Iraq.

Boko Haram leader Abubakar Shekau last month declared a "Muslim territory" after capturing Gwoza on the Cameroon border.

Source--*Reuters*

Angelina Jolie didn't invite her dad for her wedding with Brad

There's a reason Jon Voight didn't attend his daughter Angelina Jolie's wedding ceremony in France ... and let's just say ... his invitation wasn't lost in the mail.Voight tells TMZ ... he first heard about the nuptials Thursday morning when he read the news online. He tells us he's not bummed about the lack of an invite -- because he wouldn't have been able to go anyway because of the Emmys this past Monday (he was nominated for his role on "Ray Donovan").According to reports ... the ceremony WAS attended by Brad Pitt's entire immediate family.For those unfamiliar
Angie and Jon's relationship became strained after the actor said his divorce with her mother caused Jolie's "mental problems." But in 2010, the duo made amends.Well, sorta.

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Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon's marriage hit a bump

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Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon (Getty Images)

Where there's smoke there's fire, and it looks as if Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon's marriage has indeed hit a bump in the road.

Amid rumors that divorce is imminent for the couple who has been married for six years, Cannon, 33, has confirmed reports that he and Carey, 44, are living apart.

“There is trouble in paradise," the America's Got Talent host exclusively revealed to The Insider With Yahoo on Thursday. "We have been living in separate houses for a few months.”

Cannon also dispelled rumors that the problems in his relationship are due to infidelity.

“My main focus is my kids," he said of their 3-year-old twins, Moroccan and Monroe.

The couple is said to have separated around May; however, at the time, Cannon told Parade there was no truth to divorce reports.

"You kind of have to ignore it because every week it's something different, and if you paid attention to it, it actually probably would start really affecting you," he explained. "There's no merit or truth to it. It's kind of humorous, really. It couldn't be further off from the truth, and it really affects the credibility of the so-called newspapers."

Nick and Mariah continued to put on a united front over Father's Day weekend. The singer shared the below family photo — the last picture posted of the couple together on social media — on Instagram.

The pair secretly wed in the Bahamas in April 2008 after just six weeks of dating.

"We really do feel we are soulmates," Carey told People after their impromptu nuptials. "I never felt a love like this was in the cards for me."

Cannon added: "She is beautiful on the outside and 10 times as beautiful on the inside."

The duo lavishly renewed their vows in the years that followed except for their most recent anniversary (the couple claimed the had a low-key celebration).

While Nick admits they have been separated for months, he did not elaborate on what the future holds. According to some reports, the divorce is "a done deal" once the two parties negotiate a property settlement and custody agreement.

Tune into The Insider tonight on CBS for more details on Mariah and Nick.

STOP Domestic Violence

When we were younger, we were taught about domestic animals and wild animals, the key word in both context here is ANIMAL. In my own little understanding that ideology, an ANIMAL is an ANIMAL and will always be an ANIMAL.......

Domestic Violence, also known as Domestic Abuse, Spousal Abuse, Battering, Family Violence, Dating Abuse, and Intimate Partner Violence (IPV), is a pattern of behavior which involves the abuse by one person against another in an intimate relationship such as marriage, cohabitation, dating or within the family. It can be experienced by persons in heterosexual or same-sex relationships. Forms of domestic violence include physical, emotional, verbal, economic and sexual abuse, which can range from subtle, coercive forms of abuse to violent physical abuse that results in disfigurement or death. The World Health Organization (WHO) reports that globally 38% of murders against women are committed by an intimate partner.-- Source *Wikipedia*

Domestic violence often occur because the perpetrator believes that abuse is acceptable. This produces intergenerational cycles of abuse and cultural systems that condone violence. Extreme forms of abuse include various forms of homicide, including honor killings, dowry killings, religious marital law abuses and violent assaults such as acid attacks. Awareness, perception, definition and documentation of domestic violence differs widely from country to country, and from era to era.

Often there is a cycle of abuse during which tensions rise and an act of violence is committed, followed by a period of reconciliation and calm. There are different types of intimate partner violence, and the dynamics of the abuse can vary. In some cases there is a sole abuser, where there may be times when the victim acts in self-defense or retaliation. In other cases there may be mutual or common couple violence where both partners engage in abusive or violent behavior.

Individuals may be trapped in domestic violent situations through isolation, power and control, insufficient financial resources, fear and shame. As a result of abuse, survivors may experience physical disabilities, chronic health problems, mental illness, limited finances, and poor ability to create healthy relationships. Victims may experience post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Children who live in a household with violence may continue the legacy of abuse when they reach adulthood. Domestic violence often happens in the context of forced and child marriage and extends beyond.

Alcohol consumption and mental illness can be co-morbid with abuse, and present additional challenges in eliminating domestic violence.

Management of domestic violence could be implemented through medical services, law enforcement, counseling, and other forms of prevention and intervention. Important measures include lethality assessment to determine the extent to which an abuser is likely to murder, and safety planning so that the victim have tools and plans to protect themselves.

I know the English is too LONG. I will assume we don't want story, so let's be practical about it. When you hit someone just because you are stronger to in order to instill superiority, you have abused the person. I know our lawyers can shed more light on that. Now the effects can be damaging both emotional, physical and psychological and it is sometimes "enslaving".  

I was watching a music video by Patoranking titled * Girlie O! *  the original version, not the remix with Tiwa Savage (Kudos to the Director for conceptualizing and delivering it). In the video, a man slapped and beat up a lady for scanning/checking/picking up his phone, he even chased her outside in the rain, and there was Patoranking; trying to deliver her etc, but she went back to her molester or let's say, the man who beats her up. I am sure Patoranking felt so bad in the video, that he had to do the remix with Tiwa. This sort of violence is peculiar in our society and I am sure most of it go unnoticed or should I say unpunished because it is perceived as normal? It would have been nice to have the police come and arrest the man in the video, maybe that would have sent a better message to those who dare disrespect their man or woman with violence. I seriously feel some ladies don't know there worth so they stays in an abusive relationship. "Have you LOST your mind, or is this pure INSANITY, what happened to walking away?

This is not peculiar to men alone, I know a friend who had an ex that beats him up while they were in UNIBEN. If he says A, the girl will say B and follow it with a slap, and turn his whole apartment upside down, leaving everything in total disarray, only to return and repeat the scene again and again. As some of our friends would put it back then, "It's payback time for you man", some argued he used to beat up women too in the past. I guess Karma came back in the image of a woman he loved but eventually, nobody taught him what to do after several major beating that left him with scars, the love cleared from his brain. Yulk!, he should have noticed the little things when they started out, like the playful slaps on cheeks, abusive languages, something would have given him hints that THE GIRL IS BRUCE LEE'S STUDENT in CHARLIE'S ANGEL DESIGN.

I heard there's a new Domestic Violence Law in Lagos State that it states that if you beat your wife, you will go to Jail. It is now an offense for any man to hit his wife but I hope the law is vice versa because there are people like that popular cartoon character called Jude in one of our national dailies.

According to the deputy governor of Lagos State, Hon Joke Orelope-Adefulire, the Domestic Violence Law is made not only to protect women who are most times the target of violence in the home but also to safeguard the interest of men, children, servants, maids and everyone who may be a victim of domestic violence.

In case of man/woman abuse issues, it does not matter whether there's a valid contracted marriage between the victim and the perpetrator of the act as long as they are living together in a home setting.

Here's what happens when there's a case of domestic violence.

1. Remove the abuser from the home pending when the abuse is corrected

2. Or remove the complainant from the residence and put in a protective home

3. Provision of financial assistance by the state via the Office of the Public Defender/Legal Aid Council to victims of abuse who maybe financially unable to seek redress in court.

4. The court can issue warrant of arrest and remand order

I guess I might need to be more emphatic with this argument, just like a woman once said it to me. "It is UNACCEPTABLE !!!! I repeat Domestic Violence is  UNACCEPTABLE".

WRITTEN BY PRINCE YEMI MIKE ODERINDE

EDITED BY ABIDEMI ODERINLO