'All Men Are dogs' .!!!!

Kindly pardon the slanderous statement. It has never been my intention to degrade MEN to as low as comparing them to Dogs. After all, am a man the last time I checked. Taking a cue from Tina, she said and also stood her ground that 'all men are dogs'. What would have made her utter such statement? Events unfolding suggested that she was hurt beyond her limits i assumed, beyond her comprehension.



 I met henry some months back when he came on an official assignment at our office. He had this look on his face like an Angel as he made inquiries from the receptionist. His voice wasn’t that deep; it was like that of Michael Jackson!!! It made me speechless.



As I made way towards the dispenser to get a cup of water, I realized that the she could not adequately give this angelic face what he needed. Swiftly, I voluntarily stepped in and I was able to attend to him and he was satisfied with the response he got from me. When he was about leaving, he requested for my number which I refused blatantly as I became more official. He sensed that i would not bulge to his request and as that time, a ping came in from my black berry, being a smart guy; he opted for my pin which I gladly gave. After all, I could decide not to accept or could delete him at a later date, but none of this was to happen.



Henry was very funny and could make you laugh your heart out. We chatted regularly and I didn’t even know when I threw caution to the wind and gave him my number, what else could a woman ask for from a man if not happiness? When we are together, I always laughed to the point that I forgot the harsh economic conditions of the country, his arms were a safe haven where there was never a need to worry. Before I could say jack, we were already seeing each other (DATING).



I was at work on a faithfully day when his call came in and he said “caramel”, his pet name for me after some months of constant dating that he was heading home from an assignment he had embarked upon to Abeokuta at work. Usually I would head to his place at night and sometimes pass the night there, but I was so anxious to see him because he had been away for awhile that I closed early that sad day and rushed to his place before closure of work.



As I got to his compound, I sensed a negative atmosphere, something was just not right, even his neighbors who usually didn’t greet me, greeted me scornfully but I shrugged it off. I went on to his apartment only to hear moaning and groaning. At first, I felt he was up to his pornographic movies again and I shook my head for him. But as I got closer to the window, I saw an opening, alas; henry was on another woman with passion and energy to the extent that their bodies were vibrating. I felt cold and also heated up at the same time, I had goose pimples. I was stricken, shocked and was in wonderland. I lost my memory for a while; I thought I was in a movie theatre. I didn’t know how I had the courage to sit down on the floor and I couldn’t cry out but deep inside I was bleeding.



He and the lady came out after they were done. He saw me outside and he was shocked, astonished and short of words. He went on to see the lady off. Imagine, he still had the guts to that extent. He came back and begged me to the point of confusion. I was crying my heart out at this point. Such a disgusting fellow, disrespectful and no regard for me I said to myself yet, this was a guy I satisfied his sexual urge or so I thought. I am from Akwa Ibom, and I know how to pamper and when it comes to room matters, I am a machine she said. I left him and told him never to call me again. He still keeps calling, but since that faithful day, I have come to the conclusion that “ALL MEN ARE DOGS”.