Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Why Good Women are often Overlooked

As a man and even as a young boy, I've always envisioned myself growing up, being successful, chasing my dreams and building memories with one woman, one good woman. I believe that one good woman is enough. A good woman can take the place of many, meaning that instead of chasing several women, that one good woman has everything that a man would want and more.

I've come to realize that in many cases, a good woman is often over looked for so many reasons. One of which being the fact that having a good woman means being with a strong woman and so many men are too weak to realize the value and benefit of having a strong woman within their life. A woman who is outspoken, takes no bull and isn't willing to put up with some of the everyday foolery that some men put out. See for some men it's harder to deal with a strong woman simply because she won't deal with a man who is only around to weigh her down and use up all her energy.

A good woman who knows her worth may put up with some of your shit, but not for too long, because it's only a matter of time before she realizes that she can do and deserves better.
It takes a real man to deal with, maintain and remain faithful within a relationship with a good woman. It takes a real man to know what his woman is worth, knowing that he would do anything to keep her happy.

Good women are often over looked by boys pretending to be men, claiming to love her only for a while in hopes that he can get what he really wants from her, her body.
All in all, being with a good woman takes actual effort and it's just sad that so many of us men are way too lazy to provide everything that a good woman requires, desires and deserves.

All hope isn't lost though, With time, sooner or later someone will step up to the plate and be ready to treat that woman with the respect that she deserves and give her the love that she's willing to also give back.
As for me, I appreciate all of which a good woman has to offer and wish all of you nothing but  happiness in the present and in future, never lose hope and never settle for less than you deserve.

Sadly, it also works the other way around. Good men are also overlooked. Sometimes women expect us to continue fulfilling traditional male roles while they become more like the men women used to criticise. But alas, sometimes we feel better alone but its not good for man to be alone .
I said to myself sometime ago , if I knew half of what I know now some years back, would still be with the woman I dated back then. But life is full of experience, without it, we can't be a better person .

*Gentlemen hood*

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